LOVE

it was one of my relatives wedding last week. It was a male and his wife was his secondary school friend who has been his girlfriend since those days till now. Now, she is no longer the girlfriend but she is the WIFE!!! now THAT is something. i mean all this talk about teen love. i love you i love you not blabla is crap. if u last long and everything falls into place then it is love. if not, its just something u got into which was fun at first but later turned out disasterous. when i see all the couples around me being so happy together, i feel that ,yes, it is love and it is so nice to be loved. When in love, everyone seems to forget their friends and their only support becomes the guy or the girl in that relationship. however, when a break-up occurs, guess who is left there? NOT your bf or gf whom u relied fully on BUT, its your family and friends. and all those pain that you have to grow thru. GOSH!! its terrible.. so.... my point is that should u be in a relationship, make sure it lasts. else, dont even get into one!

and oh.. i have another relative also. his name is bala. he is a very nice guy. he is 31 years old. he has been with a girl, a christian girl, for like duno how long already. he has been battling with his parents to allow him to marry that girl. BUT! no they did not allow him abd this guy waited waited and waited hoping that the parents will change their mind but they din. so he has agreed to let his parents choose his wife and they had decided on a girl and Bro Bala and his fiance are getting engaged next month. i wonder what happened to the christian girl man. i mean wth. poor these people. Just because the religion is different does not mean you cant marry her ryte. Man, sometimes i feel like quitting everything and becoming a journalist. i wanna find out more. more about everything. more about things which people dont talk about or dont want to talk about.

okie. talking about journalist, i have NO IDEA why an indian laydee called my mother from tamil murasu and wanted to interview her. lol. my mother was like mmm.. oooooooook.. i cant really go out for the next three weeks. and went on to talk to her for like 10 minutes and i still have no idea what they talked about. talking about the three weeks, my dad is injured!!!! his hand or rather finger got injured and he did a surgery after which he was given a 21 days MC!!! can u even IMAGINE THAT??? 21 DAYS!!! gosh. to think my hols have started. man. he seems weak. i dunno how to react. like go up to him and say ' you okay?' or ' need any help?' or what?? am at a loss. will it even help? ah nvm.. can somebody teach me how to love?